?

Log in

At each other's throats - This might be your mother's feminism [entries|archive|friends|userinfo]
This might be your mother's feminism

[ userinfo | livejournal userinfo ]
[ archive | journal archive ]

At each other's throats [Apr. 17th, 2008|11:26 pm]
This might be your mother's feminism

motherism

[ailbhe]
I really hate the mothers-against-mothers stuff. I have particular aspects of it I particularly hate, chief among them the idea that mothers who have other jobs / do not have other jobs are not proper mothers / not proper workers. I use the phrases "part-time mother" and "doesn't work" when I'm talking about this.

And today I hurt a mother who wasn't familiar with my heavily sarcastic use of the phrases. She knows me well enough to be able to work out that I don't actually think mothers who have other jobs are bad mothers, or part-time mothers, but the issue is so nasty that the phrase made her wince.

How can mothers express their own opinions to each other without it being an automatic attack? So much of the language is so loaded. I quite see that sarcasm doesn't help, but I get so ANGRY.

Grr.
linkReply

Comments:
[User Picture]From: merryhouse
2008-04-23 08:25 pm (UTC)
"outworking" sounds a bit cumbersome.
(Reply) (Parent) (Thread)